\u201cChild dragged into crime.\u201d<\/p>\n
The expression is beautiful. It's soft. It doesn't bother anyone.
\nIt hides only one truth.<\/p>\n
The child has committed a crime.
\nBut we construct the sentence in such a way that there is no perpetrator.
\nIt's as if the boy slipped on his own.<\/p>\n
We are comfortable.<\/p>\n
Tens of thousands of children end up in court every year.
\nWhat's the most
\nTheft Injury.<\/p>\n
So the child is either trying to buy something
\nOr it tries to exist by bumping into someone.<\/p>\n
Both lead to the same sentence
\n\u201cSee me.\u201d<\/p>\n
But what do we do
\nWe punish the doer, not the seer.<\/p>\n
The story is always the same.<\/p>\n
The child is disconnected from school.
\nFirst he doesn't come for a few days.
\nThen no one calls.
\nThen no one is curious.<\/p>\n
At some point, the child also quits.<\/p>\n
And that moment is critical.<\/p>\n
Because if you're coming out of a system
\nYou enter another system.<\/p>\n
There is no such thing as emptiness.<\/p>\n
The street fills that void.<\/p>\n
The street is fast.
\nThere are clear rules.
\nAnd most importantly
\nHe'll accept you right away.<\/p>\n
If the school won't give you a seat
\nStreet gives.<\/p>\n
Then the little things start.<\/p>\n
Stealing something.
\nTo hit someone.<\/p>\n
If someone doesn't come along at that moment and say, \u201cThat's it.\u201d
\nThe child learns that
\nSo it's okay.<\/p>\n
The real problem starts here.<\/p>\n
It's not that the child doesn't know he is doing wrong.
\nBut he learns that there is no recompense for wrongdoing.<\/p>\n
And that knowledge is very dangerous.<\/p>\n
After a while, the police station.<\/p>\n
The first one is fear.
\nLess in the second.
\nThen habit.<\/p>\n
That is where we come in.<\/p>\n
Perfect timing.<\/p>\n
After it's too late.<\/p>\n
Because our system works like this
\nNo early vision
\nThere's a late catch<\/p>\n
School absenteeism is a given.
\nBut no one takes him seriously.<\/p>\n
But that absence is a sentence
\nI'm getting out of here.<\/p>\n
But no one goes after him.<\/p>\n
Then we are surprised to see the child at the police station.<\/p>\n
Do not be surprised.<\/p>\n
This is a planned outcome.<\/p>\n
And then there's this
\n\u201cI don't.\u201d<\/p>\n
We misunderstand this sentence.<\/p>\n
The child is not just saying \u201cI have no money\u201d.<\/p>\n
He says
\nI don't have a place
\nNo one's holding me
\nNo one cares about me<\/p>\n
Someone who grew up with this feeling
\nFills the gap<\/p>\n
Whatever he finds.<\/p>\n
Sometimes by taking.
\nSometimes by breaking it.<\/p>\n
And the border issue.<\/p>\n
The border does not form by itself.
\nSomebody has to put it in.<\/p>\n
If no one puts it
\nThe child puts it himself.<\/p>\n
And it's usually too late.<\/p>\n
Let's say this clearly<\/p>\n
Not every child is innocent.<\/p>\n
But no child gets to this point on their own.<\/p>\n
If a child is absent for weeks
\nIf no one knocks on your door
\nIf no one says \u201cwhere are you?\u201d<\/p>\n
There are no children there
\nThe system is lost.<\/p>\n
But we are passing the bill to the child.<\/p>\n
Easy.<\/p>\n
So what do we do?<\/p>\n
It's not very complicated.<\/p>\n
The child is absent from school for two weeks
\nOne of them will leave.<\/p>\n
He will really go.<\/p>\n
First outpost contact
\nThere will be no file opening
\nIt will be a life intervention<\/p>\n
In a child's life
\nThere will be at least one adult<\/p>\n
A real adult.<\/p>\n
If you are unable to do so
\nTalk as much as you want<\/p>\n
Nothing changes.<\/p>\n
Because it's not about crime.<\/p>\n
The point is this<\/p>\n
We are not losing children<\/p>\n
We are slowly pushing them away<\/p>\n
And finally<\/p>\n
They look where they fell<\/p>\n
\u201cHow did it happen?\u201d we ask.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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