\u0130ntihardan s\u00f6z edildi\u011finde bir zamanlar akl\u0131mdan \u015fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ge\u00e7erdi:
\nMadem \u00f6l\u00fcmden korkmuyordu, keske hayat\u0131n u\u00e7lar\u0131na gitseydi.
\nD\u00fcnyay\u0131 gezseydi, bilinmeyene kar\u0131\u015fsayd\u0131, hayat\u0131 en yo\u011fun haliyle ya\u015fasayd\u0131.<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn anl\u0131yorum ki bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce meseleyi \u0131skal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
As\u0131l mesele \u015fu: \u0130nsan pusulas\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti\u011finde, hayata tutunamaz.<\/p>\n
Macera, yar\u0131na dair bir y\u00f6n ister. Depresyonda ise yar\u0131n pusludur. Hayat, ke\u015ffedilecek bir alan olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar; katlan\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken bir zamana d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Insan riskten ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in de\u011fil, riskin art\u0131k bir anlam \u00fcretmedi\u011fini hissetti\u011fi i\u00e7in durur.<\/p>\n
Bu y\u00fczden intihar\u0131 \u201c\u00f6l\u00fcmden korkmamak\u201d gibi okumak yan\u0131lt\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7o\u011fu durumda \u00f6l\u00fcm bir hedef de\u011fildir. Ortada bir \u00f6l\u00fcm arzusu de\u011fil, hayatla ba\u011f\u0131n kopmas\u0131 vard\u0131r. Insan \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc se\u00e7mez; ya\u015faman\u0131n gerek\u00e7esini kaybeder.<\/p>\n
T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de son yirmi y\u0131lda intihar vakalar\u0131n\u0131n belirgin bi\u00e7imde artmas\u0131 da bu kopu\u015fla birlikte okunmal\u0131d\u0131r. Say\u0131lar neredeyse iki kat\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. En y\u00fcksek risk gruplar\u0131 dikkat \u00e7ekicidir: gen\u00e7ler ve ileri ya\u015flar. Hayat\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda y\u00f6n arayanlarla, sonunda y\u00fck\u00fc ta\u015f\u0131yamayanlar. Erkeklerde oranlar\u0131n daha y\u00fcksek olmas\u0131 ise yaln\u0131zl\u0131k ve rol bask\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n agirligini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcrmektedir.<\/p>\n
Memlekette de\u011fi\u015fen en temel \u015fey gelecek duygusudur. Egitim art\u0131k bir yol g\u00f6stermiyor. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmak ilerleme hissi \u00fcretmiyor. Emekle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k aras\u0131ndaki ba\u011f zay\u0131flad\u0131. \u0130nsanlar yoruluyor ama ilerleyemiyor. Ayn\u0131 ko\u015fullar alt\u0131nda \u00e7ok say\u0131da insan benzer umutsuzluk ve t\u00fckenmi\u015flik ya\u015f\u0131yorsa, depresyonu yaln\u0131zca bireysel bir k\u0131r\u0131lganl\u0131kla a\u00e7\u0131klayamay\u0131z. Burada ki\u015fisel bir sorun de\u011fil, toplumsal ve sistemsel bir y\u00fck vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Bu tabloya g\u00fcvencesizlik ekleniyor. Yoksulluktan \u00e7ok, yar\u0131n\u0131n belirsizligi y\u0131prat\u0131yor. S\u00fcrekli tetikte ya\u015famak zihni a\u015f\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131yor. Uzayan belirsizlik, umudu de\u011fil; dayanma kapasitesini t\u00fcketiyor.<\/p>\n
Adalet duygusundaki a\u015f\u0131nma ise bu s\u00fcreci tamaml\u0131yor. Ayn\u0131 kurallar\u0131n herkese ayn\u0131 uygulanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir yerde \u015fu duygu yerle\u015fiyor:
\n\u201cNe yaparsam yapay\u0131m, sonucu ben belirlemiyorum.\u201d<\/p>\n
Kontrol duygusu \u00e7\u00f6kt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, depresyon derinle\u015fiyor.
\nMesele bu y\u00fczden nettir: \u201cy\u00f6ns\u00fczl\u00fck\u201d.<\/p>\n
\u0130ntihar, \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc se\u00e7mek de\u011fildir; pusulan\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n
Ve bu noktaya gelenler, bireysel bir zay\u0131fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n de\u011fil; toplumsal bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmenin g\u00f6stergesidir.<\/p>\n
Bunu g\u00f6rmeden ne say\u0131lar d\u00fc\u015fer, ne de bu \u00fclkenin ruh hali anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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