{"id":285495,"date":"2026-04-29T05:23:18","date_gmt":"2026-04-29T05:23:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/?p=285495"},"modified":"2026-04-29T05:23:18","modified_gmt":"2026-04-29T05:23:18","slug":"baris-kimin-payina-dusuyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/baris-kimin-payina-dusuyor\/","title":{"rendered":"Bar\u0131\u015f Kimin Pay\u0131na D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Toplumsal bar\u0131\u015f, sadece kavgan\u0131n olmamas\u0131 de\u011fildir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n korkmadan konu\u015fabildi\u011fi, haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda yaln\u0131z kalmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fi, kap\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda irkilmedi\u011fi bir haldir. Sessizli\u011fin de\u011fil, g\u00fcvenin oldu\u011fu yerdir.<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131\u015f var diyorlar.<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ekten mi.<\/p>\n<p>Ortal\u0131k sessiz diye mi? Kimse ba\u011f\u0131rm\u0131yor diye mi? Kimse \u201cbu i\u015fte bir gariplik var\u201d demiyor diye mi?<\/p>\n<p>Sessizlik ile bar\u0131\u015f\u0131n kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 eski bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k. \u0130tiraz yoksa, her \u015fey yolunda say\u0131l\u0131yor. Oysa bazen ortal\u0131k sakinle\u015fti\u011finde de\u011fil, insanlar konu\u015fmay\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda tehlike ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan durduk yere susmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemeden \u00f6nce k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir hesap yap\u0131yor art\u0131k herkes.<\/p>\n<p>De\u011fer mi.<br \/>\nBa\u015f\u0131m\u0131 a\u011fr\u0131t\u0131r m\u0131.<br \/>\nBir \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fir mi.<\/p>\n<p>Cevap genelde ayn\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>De\u011fmez.<br \/>\nA\u011fr\u0131t\u0131r.<br \/>\nDe\u011fi\u015fmez.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o anda bir toplumun sesi k\u0131s\u0131l\u0131r. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131nca huzur gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. \u0130\u00e7eriden bak\u0131nca bu, vazge\u00e7menin sessizli\u011fidir.<\/p>\n<p>Ve biz o sessizli\u011fe g\u00fczel bir isim veriyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa bar\u0131\u015f, sadece kavga olmamas\u0131 de\u011fildir. Korkmadan konu\u015fabilmektir. Haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda yaln\u0131z kalmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmektir. Kap\u0131 \u00e7ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda irkilmemektir.<\/p>\n<p>Bunlar yoksa, ad\u0131 ne olursa olsun, ortada bar\u0131\u015f yoktur.<\/p>\n<p>Bir de adalet meselesi var. O hep \u201cvarm\u0131\u015f gibi\u201d durur.<\/p>\n<p>Ka\u011f\u0131t \u00fcst\u00fcnde herkes e\u015fit. Kurallar yaz\u0131l\u0131. Sistem tarifli.<\/p>\n<p>Ama hayat ka\u011f\u0131t \u00fcst\u00fcnde ya\u015fanm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Biri bir telefonla i\u015fini \u00e7\u00f6zer.<br \/>\nDi\u011feri ayn\u0131 i\u015f i\u00e7in g\u00fcnlerce dola\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ayn\u0131 hata iki farkl\u0131 sonu\u00e7 do\u011furur.<br \/>\nAyn\u0131 hak iki farkl\u0131 kap\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n<p>Ve herkes bunu bilir. Kimse y\u00fcksek sesle s\u00f6ylemez.<\/p>\n<p>Ve sonra denir ki sistem \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. Ama kimin i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 biraz mu\u011flak.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar bunu g\u00f6r\u00fcyor mu.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6r\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n<p>Peki ne yap\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Nichts.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7ine at\u0131yor. Not ediyor. Biriktiriyor.<\/p>\n<p>Sessiz toplumlar unutmaz. Sadece konu\u015fmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra bir g\u00fcn bir \u015fey olur.<\/p>\n<p>Bir c\u00fcmle, bir olay, bazen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir k\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Ve y\u0131llar\u0131n birikimi bir anda y\u00fczeye \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n<p>O zaman \u015fa\u015f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu \u00f6fke nereden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u201d denir.<\/p>\n<p>Sanki hi\u00e7 i\u015faret yokmu\u015f gibi.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa i\u015faret \u00e7oktu. Sadece g\u00f6rmek zahmetliydi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm de haz\u0131rd\u0131r her zaman.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGe\u00e7mi\u015fi kapatal\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Konu\u015fmayal\u0131m. \u00dcst\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6rtelim. Devam edelim.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc mesele hi\u00e7bir zaman sorunlar olmad\u0131. Mesele, o sorunlar\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr olmas\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa ger\u00e7ek bar\u0131\u015f\u0131n yolu tam tersidir.<\/p>\n<p>Konu\u015fmadan olmaz.<br \/>\nKabul etmeden olmaz.<br \/>\nD\u00fczeltmeden hi\u00e7 olmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Ve evet, bunlar zahmetlidir.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen birilerinin sorumluluk almas\u0131 gerekir. Bazen birilerinin yerinden kalkmas\u0131. Bazen de \u201cben yapt\u0131m\u201d diyebilmesi.<\/p>\n<p>Bu y\u00fczden en kolay yol se\u00e7ilir.<\/p>\n<p>Hi\u00e7bir \u015fey olmam\u0131\u015f gibi devam etmek.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bu yolun bir bedeli vard\u0131r. Sessizlik birikir. G\u00fcvensizlik yay\u0131l\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar birbirine de\u011fil, sadece kendi dar alan\u0131na g\u00fcvenir hale gelir.<\/p>\n<p>Toplum dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey de orada \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmeye ba\u015flar zaten.<\/p>\n<p>Bir de i\u015fin bize d\u00fc\u015fen k\u0131sm\u0131 var.<\/p>\n<p>Bir haks\u0131zl\u0131k g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde ne yap\u0131yorsun.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00f6n\u00fcp bak\u0131yor musun.<br \/>\nYoksa \u201cbana dokunmuyor\u201d deyip ge\u00e7iyor musun.<\/p>\n<p>Belki de en kritik soru \u015fu.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn o haks\u0131zl\u0131k sana dokundu\u011funda, d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakacak birini bulabilecek misin.<\/p>\n<p>As\u0131l k\u0131r\u0131lma noktas\u0131 buras\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bar\u0131\u015f sadece yukar\u0131dan kurulmaz. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131da, insanlar\u0131n birbirine nas\u0131l davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131yla ayakta kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer herkes biraz geri \u00e7ekiliyorsa, biraz susuyorsa, biraz g\u00f6rmezden geliyorsa\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan \u015fey d\u00fczen de\u011fil, bo\u015fluktur.<\/p>\n<p>Ve o bo\u015fluk bir g\u00fcn mutlaka dolar.<\/p>\n<p>Sonunda d\u00f6n\u00fcp dola\u015f\u0131p ayn\u0131 soruya geliyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Bar\u0131\u015f kimin pay\u0131na d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer cevap, i\u015fi yolunda olanlara, g\u00fcvende olanlara, sesi zaten \u00e7\u0131kanlara ise\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bu bir bar\u0131\u015f de\u011fil. Bu, konfor alan\u0131n\u0131n korunmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ek bar\u0131\u015f daha zor bir \u015feydir.<\/p>\n<p>Kap\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131nan\u0131n da g\u00fcvende hissetmesi.<br \/>\nSesi \u00e7\u0131kmayan\u0131n da.<br \/>\nHakk\u0131n\u0131 ararken yaln\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131lan\u0131n da.<\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer bar\u0131\u015f onlar\u0131n pay\u0131na da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyorsa, i\u015fte o zaman konu\u015fabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Yoksa elimizde zaten \u00e7ok iyi i\u015fleyen bir \u015fey var.<\/p>\n<p>Sessizlik.<\/p>\n<p>Ad\u0131n\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f koymu\u015fuz sadece.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sessizlik ile bar\u0131\u015f\u0131n kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 eski bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k. \u0130tiraz yoksa, her \u015fey yolunda say\u0131l\u0131yor. Oysa bazen ortal\u0131k sakinle\u015fti\u011finde de\u011fil, insanlar konu\u015fmay\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda tehlike ba\u015flar.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":285496,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[286],"tags":[289],"class_list":{"0":"post-285495","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-yazarlar","8":"tag-manset"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/285495","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=285495"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/285495\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":285497,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/285495\/revisions\/285497"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/285496"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=285495"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=285495"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=285495"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}