Bug\u00fcn Cumartesi. B\u00fcy\u00fck ihtimalle bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 okumadan hemen \u00f6nce telefonunuzda k\u0131sa bir tur att\u0131n\u0131z. Bir alt sat\u0131rda \u0130ran’da \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 d\u00f6ken bir dostunuzun, \u00fc\u00e7 saniye sonra l\u00fcks t\u00fcketimi \u00f6ven bir payla\u015f\u0131m yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fcn\u00fcz. \u015ea\u015f\u0131rmad\u0131n\u0131z. Hatta belki siz de benzer bir \u201cduygu ge\u00e7i\u015fini\u201d birka\u00e7 da kika \u00f6nce siz de ya\u015fad\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k bu \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n normali bu.<\/p>\n
Geleneksel ayd\u0131nlanman\u0131n o me\u015fhur \u201ctutarl\u0131l\u0131k\u201d ilkesi, dijital mezarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n derinliklerine g\u00f6m\u00fcld\u00fc. Zihnimiz art\u0131k bir k\u00fct\u00fcphane de\u011fil; her k\u00f6\u015fesinde farkl\u0131 bir m\u00fczi\u011fin \u00e7ald\u0131\u011f\u0131, her tezg\u00e2h\u0131nda ba\u015fka bir ideolojinin meze gibi sunuldu\u011fu bir panay\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Eskiden bir fikre sahip olmak, o fikrin bedelini \u00f6demeyi gerektirirdi. Bir duru\u015funuz varsa, o duru\u015fun r\u00fczg\u00e2r\u0131na g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcs gererdiniz.<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn\u00fcn insan\u0131 ise fikirlerini ya\u015fam\u0131yor; kombinliyor.<\/p>\n
Sabah otoriterli\u011fi \u201cg\u00fc\u00e7\u201d diye sahipleniyor, \u00f6\u011flen \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck s\u00f6ylemini \u201cmodernlik\u201d diye tak\u0131n\u0131yor.
\nBu bir \u00e7eli\u015fki de\u011fil art\u0131k; bir tarz.<\/p>\n
Bu sahtek\u00e2rl\u0131k m\u0131?<\/p>\n
Hay\u0131r. Daha tehlikeli bir \u015fey: hissizle\u015fme.<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc modern insan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyor, maruz kal\u0131yor. Algoritmalar \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze bir a\u00e7\u0131k b\u00fcfe koyuyor; biz de taba\u011f\u0131m\u0131za birbirine asla yak\u0131\u015fmayacak soslar\u0131 dolduran i\u015ftahl\u0131 ama damak tad\u0131 bozulmu\u015f turistler gibi davran\u0131yoruz. Fa\u015fizm bir \u201cvibe\u201d, mistisizm bir \u201cestetik\u201d, devrim ise bir \u201chashtag\u201de indirgenmi\u015f durumda.<\/p>\n
HAK\u0130KATTEN KOPU\u015eUN ESTET\u0130\u011e\u0130<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00c7eli\u015fki, ancak ortak bir hakikat zemini varsa g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr olur. O zemin \u00e7\u00f6kt\u00fc.<\/p>\n Art\u0131k herkesin kendi yank\u0131 odas\u0131nda \u00e7o\u011faltt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u201cdo\u011frusu\u201d var. Ortak bir ger\u00e7eklik olmay\u0131nca, birbirini d\u0131\u015flamas\u0131 gereken fikirlerin yan yana durmas\u0131 kimseyi rahats\u0131z etmiyor.<\/p>\n Z\u0131tl\u0131klar art\u0131k \u00e7at\u0131\u015fm\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kimsenin kimseyle ger\u00e7ek bir derdi yok. Herkesin tek derdi, bir sonraki i\u00e7eri\u011fe yeti\u015fmek.<\/p>\n SONU\u00c7: AKI\u015eIN K\u00d6LELER\u0130<\/strong><\/p>\n Siyaset i\u00e7in bundan daha elveri\u015fli bir zemin olabilir mi?<\/p>\n D\u00fcn alk\u0131\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bug\u00fcn yuhalayan, yar\u0131n ise her ikisini de unutup bir kedi videosunda teselli bulan bir kitle\u2026 Haf\u0131zas\u0131zl\u0131k, y\u00f6netilmesi en kolay toplumsal formdur.<\/p>\n Bu \u00e7a\u011f bizden b\u00fct\u00fcn bir insan olmam\u0131z\u0131 istemiyor. Par\u00e7alanm\u0131\u015f, her par\u00e7as\u0131 ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 t\u00fcketilen, \u201ckullan-at\u201d kimlikler istiyor.<\/p>\n DOKUNMADAN SEVMEK, AYRILMADAN TERK ETMEK: D\u0130J\u0130TAL A\u015eKLAR \u00c7A\u011eI<\/strong><\/p>\n Yukar\u0131daki b\u00f6l\u00fcmde \u201cpar\u00e7alanm\u0131\u015f bilin\u00e7\u201dten s\u00f6z etmi\u015ftim. Peki bu par\u00e7alanm\u0131\u015f insan, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131na nas\u0131l tutunur?<\/p>\n Cevap basit: Tutunamaz. Sadece kayar.<\/p>\n BA\u011eLANTI \u00c7A\u011eI, BA\u011eLANMA \u00c7A\u011eI DE\u011e\u0130L<\/strong><\/p>\n Eskiden sevmek bir bedeldi. Bir y\u00fck\u00fc omuzlamak, bir \u00f6mr\u00fc g\u00f6ze almakt\u0131.<\/p>\n Bug\u00fcn ise a\u015fk, bir uygulama kadar h\u0131zl\u0131 kurulup bir bildirim kadar sessiz s\u00f6n\u00fcyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkesin zihninde ayn\u0131 soru dola\u015f\u0131yor:<\/p>\n \u201cDaha iyisi var m\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n Beziehungen werden nicht mehr erlebt, sie werden konsumiert. M\u00f6gen, ausprobieren, sich langweilen, liken.<\/p>\n Bir gece \u201cseni d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum\u201d diyen, sabah \u201cg\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u201dde b\u0131rak\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kalpler de\u011fil, algoritmalar y\u00f6netiyor bu \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n ili\u015fkilerini.<\/p>\n KIRILGANLIK YASAK: V\u0130TR\u0130NDE OLMAK ZORUNDAYIZ<\/strong><\/p>\n Ger\u00e7ek yak\u0131nl\u0131k, kusurlar\u0131n g\u00f6sterildi\u011fi yerde ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n Ama bu \u00e7a\u011f kusura tahamm\u00fcl etmiyor. Herkes vitrinde. Herkes mutlu, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ve \u201ciyi\u201d.<\/p>\n Oysa vitrine dokunamazs\u0131n. Sadece bakars\u0131n.<\/p>\n Ve gece olunca, o vitrinin arkas\u0131ndaki yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa kimse ula\u015famaz.<\/p>\n SESS\u0130Z \u015e\u0130DDET: YOK SAYMAK<\/strong><\/p>\n Bu \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n en yayg\u0131n terk etme bi\u00e7imi ba\u011f\u0131rmak de\u011fil, susmak.<\/p>\n Ortadan kaybolmak.<\/p>\n Bir mesaj\u0131n cevaps\u0131z kalmas\u0131, bir vedadan daha a\u011f\u0131r olabilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu, kar\u015f\u0131ndakini bir insan olarak de\u011fil, bir i\u00e7erik olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn ilan\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u0130\u00e7erik t\u00fcketilir. Be\u011fenilmezse ge\u00e7ilir.<\/p>\n PEK\u0130 YA GER\u00c7EKTEN SEVENLER?<\/strong><\/p>\n H\u00e2l\u00e2 varlar.<\/p>\n G\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bakarak konu\u015fabilenler, bir y\u00fck\u00fc birlikte ta\u015f\u0131may\u0131 g\u00f6ze alanlar\u2026 Ama onlar da bu h\u0131z\u0131n i\u00e7inde tutunacak zemin ar\u0131yor.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu \u00e7a\u011fda sevmek, ger\u00e7ekten cesaret istiyor.<\/p>\n EKRANIN SO\u011eUKLU\u011eUNDA TEN SICAKLI\u011eI ARAMAK: B\u0130R MODERN TRAJED\u0130<\/strong><\/p>\n Par\u00e7alanm\u0131\u015f zihnin en b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u0131\u011f\u0131na\u011f\u0131 \u201c\u00f6teki\u201ddir. Ama o s\u0131\u011f\u0131nak da art\u0131k g\u00fcvenli de\u011fil.<\/p>\n SE\u00c7ENEK BOLLU\u011eU, DE\u011eER YOKSULLU\u011eU<\/strong><\/p>\n Eskiden tan\u0131\u015fmak zaman isterdi. \u015eimdi se\u00e7mek yeterli.<\/p>\n Ama se\u00e7enek artt\u0131k\u00e7a de\u011fer azal\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u201cDaha iyisi bir kayd\u0131rma uza\u011f\u0131ndayken neden u\u011fra\u015fay\u0131m?\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi, modern ili\u015fkinin g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen yasas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Bu y\u00fczden kimse kimseye tahamm\u00fcl etmiyor.<\/p>\n EMPAT\u0130N\u0130N BUHARLA\u015eMASI<\/strong><\/p>\n Ekran\u0131n arkas\u0131nda kalan birine ac\u0131 verdi\u011finizi hissetmezsiniz.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezsiniz. Sesini duymazs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n Bu y\u00fczden en b\u00fcy\u00fck kay\u0131p, sevginin de\u011fil; empatinin kayb\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n SERG\u0130LENEN A\u015eK, YA\u015eANMAYAN YAKINLIK<\/strong><\/p>\n Eskiden a\u015fk, iki ki\u015finin birbirine bakmas\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n \u015eimdi iki ki\u015fi ayn\u0131 kameraya bak\u0131p ba\u015fkalar\u0131na kendini g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n \u0130li\u015fki ya\u015fanm\u0131yor, sergileniyor.<\/p>\n Sergilenen her \u015fey gibi, zamanla cans\u0131zla\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n PEK\u0130 NEDEN H\u00c2L\u00c2 B\u0130R\u0130N\u0130 ARIYORUZ?<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0130\u015fte b\u00fct\u00fcn bu \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcmenin ortas\u0131nda as\u0131l soru bu:<\/p>\n Madem ba\u011flanam\u0131yoruz, madem her an daha iyisini ar\u0131yoruz, neden h\u00e2l\u00e2 birini istiyoruz?<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan, b\u00fct\u00fcn bu dijital katmanlar\u0131n alt\u0131nda h\u00e2l\u00e2 ayn\u0131 \u015feyin pe\u015finde:<\/p>\n G\u00f6r\u00fclmek.<\/p>\n Anla\u015f\u0131lmak.<\/p>\n De\u011ferli hissetmek.<\/p>\n Algoritmalar bizi e\u015fle\u015ftirebilir ama teselli edemez.<\/p>\n Bir emoji, bir elin s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n yerini tutamaz.<\/p>\n Belki de sorun teknoloji de\u011fil.<\/p>\n Belki de sorun, bize sunulan o cazip vaat:<\/p>\n \u201cZahmetsiz hayat.\u201d<\/p>\n Oysa sevgi zahmet ister.<\/p>\n Emek verilmemi\u015f bir duygu, duygu mudur?<\/p>\n Yoksa biz, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bast\u0131rmak i\u00e7in birinden di\u011ferine savrulan duygusal turistler miyiz?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Beziehungen werden nicht mehr erlebt, sie werden konsumiert. 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