{"id":281680,"date":"2026-01-19T07:33:53","date_gmt":"2026-01-19T07:33:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/?p=281680"},"modified":"2026-01-19T07:33:53","modified_gmt":"2026-01-19T07:33:53","slug":"cocuklarin-aynasinda-turkiye","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/cocuklarin-aynasinda-turkiye\/","title":{"rendered":"Die T\u00fcrkei im Spiegel der Kinder"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"\u00c7ocuklar \u015fiddete durduk yere y\u00f6nelmiyor. Onlar\u0131 \u015fiddete iten \u015fey, b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fckleri ortam.<\/p>\n

Ausgabe \u201cbirka\u00e7 k\u00f6t\u00fc \u00e7ocuk\u201d<\/em> de\u011fil. Mesele, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n i\u00e7ine do\u011fdu\u011fu d\u00fczen.<\/p>\n

Elimizde veri var. T\u00dc\u0130K\u2019in 2024 \u201cG\u00fcvenlik Birimine Gelen veya Getirilen \u00c7ocuk \u0130statistikleri\u201d<\/em> b\u00fcltenine g\u00f6re 2024\u2019te g\u00fcvenlik birimlerine gelen veya getirilen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 olay say\u0131s\u0131 bir \u00f6nceki y\u0131la g\u00f6re %9,8 artarak 612 bin 651\u2019e y\u00fckselmi\u015f. Su\u00e7a s\u00fcr\u00fcklenme nedeniyle gelen veya getirilen 202 bin 785 \u00e7ocu\u011fa isnat edilen su\u00e7larda ilk s\u0131rada \u201cyaralama\u201d<\/strong> var. Oran\u0131 %40,4.<\/p>\n

Bu rakamlar\u0131n s\u00f6yledi\u011fi \u015fey net: \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n zor kullanmaya meyli art\u0131yor. \u00dcstelik en yayg\u0131n tablo \u201cyaralama\u201d<\/strong>. Yani mesele ciddile\u015fmi\u015f durumda.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fin merkezi evdir.<\/p>\n

T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de ge\u00e7im derdi b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e evde tahamm\u00fcl azal\u0131yor; yorgunluk, kayg\u0131, bor\u00e7 ve g\u00fcvencesizlik evin dilini sertle\u015ftiriyor. Evde \u015fiddet, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama ve sert ceza dili varsa \u00e7ocuk bunu normal g\u00f6r\u00fcyor; sald\u0131rganl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ileti\u015fim y\u00f6ntemi gibi \u00f6\u011frenip i\u00e7selle\u015ftiriyor.<\/p>\n

Dijital ortam bu zemini h\u0131zland\u0131r\u0131yor. S\u00fcrekli uyar\u0131lan dikkat, par\u00e7alanan odak, d\u00fc\u015fen sab\u0131r, anl\u0131k tepki\u2026 MEB\u2019in 2025\u2019te a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201c\u015eiddet Alg\u0131s\u0131 Ara\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131\u201d<\/strong>nda lise \u00f6\u011frencileri \u015fiddetin en \u00e7ok g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yer olarak dijital ortam\u0131 i\u015faretliyor; kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131n %37,1\u2019i dijital ortamda \u015fiddetin yayg\u0131n oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. \u00c7ocuklar bu dili sadece ya\u015fam\u0131yor, izliyor; hem de d\u00fczenli olarak.<\/p>\n

Sosyal medya \u00fczerinden yap\u0131lan zorbal\u0131k, tehdit ve te\u015fhir i\u00e7erikleri h\u0131zla yay\u0131lmadan durdurulmal\u0131. Zorbal\u0131k da disiplin konusudur: Okul \u201cbu d\u0131\u015far\u0131da oldu\u201d<\/strong> diyerek ka\u00e7mamal\u0131, ma\u011fdur \u00e7ocu\u011fu korumal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Okul kural\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmesi gereken yerdir; ama bir olay ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u201cad\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131n\u201d<\/strong> diye \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6rterse \u00e7ocuk \u015funu \u00f6\u011frenir: kural yok. Kural olmay\u0131nca d\u00fcrt\u00fcsellik artar.<\/p>\n

Aidiyet de bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te belirleyicidir. Ergen kendi de\u011ferini bir grupta \u00f6l\u00e7mek ister. Evde ve okulda g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen \u00e7ocuk \u201carka\u201d<\/strong> arar. Grup g\u00fc\u00e7 verir, g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u00fck verir; sertlik ve zor kullanma da bu g\u00fcc\u00fcn dili olur. B\u00f6ylece bu davran\u0131\u015f yaln\u0131z \u00f6fke patlamas\u0131 olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar, kimli\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Kad\u0131k\u00f6y\u2019de 24 Ocak 2025\u2019te Mattia Ahmet Minguzzi\u2019nin \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmesi bir e\u015fikti. Ama tek \u00f6rnek bu de\u011fil. Atlas\u2019\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmesi de ayn\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fi g\u00f6sterdi: \u00e7ocukluk art\u0131k daha korunaks\u0131z. \u015eiddetin e\u015fi\u011fi d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Bug\u00fcn bir laf, bir bak\u0131\u015f, bir tart\u0131\u015fma; birka\u00e7 dakikada geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc olmayan bir \u015feye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febiliyor.<\/p>\n

Toplum bug\u00fcn tek bir c\u00fcmlede birle\u015fiyor: \u201cEn a\u011f\u0131r ceza verilsin.\u201d<\/strong> Bu \u00f6fke anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kaybedilen sadece bir \u00e7ocuk de\u011fil; koskoca bir toplumun g\u00fcven duygusu. \u0130nsanlar \u201cyar\u0131n benim \u00e7ocu\u011fum\u201d<\/strong> korkusuyla konu\u015fuyor.<\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm belli: Bu \u00fclkede \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in yeniden bir d\u00fczen kurulmak zorunda. Bu i\u015f \u201caile terbiyesi\u201d<\/strong> diyerek ge\u00e7i\u015ftirilemez; devletin g\u00f6revidir. Devlet, okulda \u015fiddetin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc kapatt\u0131rmamal\u0131; sald\u0131rganl\u0131k oldu\u011funda hemen m\u00fcdahale etmeli ve ma\u011fdur \u00e7ocu\u011fu korumal\u0131d\u0131r. Her okulda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan psikolojik destek sistemi olmal\u0131, disiplin kurallar\u0131 net olmal\u0131 ve zor kullanma vakalar\u0131nda standart bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 i\u015fletilmelidir. Ergenlik d\u00f6neminde \u00f6fke bo\u015falt\u0131m\u0131, stresle ba\u015f etme ve d\u00fcrt\u00fc kontrol\u00fc i\u00e7in rehberlik hizmetleri g\u00fc\u00e7lendirilmeli ve yayg\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar art\u0131k \u015funu bilerek b\u00fcy\u00fcmeli: \u015eiddet dili normal de\u011fildir ve mutlaka bir bedeli vard\u0131r.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bu \u00fclkede \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in yeniden bir d\u00fczen kurulmak zorunda. Bu i\u015f \u201caile terbiyesi\u201d diyerek ge\u00e7i\u015ftirilemez; devletin g\u00f6revidir.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":281681,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[286],"tags":[289],"class_list":{"0":"post-281680","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-yazarlar","8":"tag-manset"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/281680","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=281680"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/281680\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":281682,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/281680\/revisions\/281682"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/281681"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=281680"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=281680"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=281680"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}