Eskiden T\u00fcrk filmlerinde tacizcinin kim oldu\u011funu daha adam kap\u0131dan girerken bilirdik. Karanl\u0131k bir tip, kirli bir bak\u0131\u015f, sevimsiz bir y\u00fcz\u2026 Senaryo o kadar a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 ki \u201ck\u00f6t\u00fc\u201d belli olurdu.
\nPeki ya bug\u00fcn?
\nBug\u00fcn as\u0131l tehlike kravatl\u0131, temiz y\u00fczl\u00fc, ekranda \u201cahlak\u201d diye nutuk atanlarda gizli.
\nNe ironidir ki, her g\u00fcn adli vakalar\u0131 anlatanlar\u0131n, su\u00e7un anatomisini \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n, topluma \u201cnamus\u201d ve \u201cerdem\u201d dersi verenlerin bir k\u0131sm\u0131, ayn\u0131 ahlaks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n faili olarak kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. Haberini sunduklar\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kendi odalar\u0131nda, kendi mesajlar\u0131nda, kendi meslekta\u015flar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 i\u015fleyenler\u2026
\nVe mesele sadece bas\u0131n de\u011fil.
\nSanat\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan akademisyenine, yazar\u0131ndan \u00f6\u011fretmenine kadar toplumun \u00f6n\u00fcnde duran, topluma \u00f6rnek olmas\u0131, hatta zaman zaman y\u00f6n g\u00f6stermesi beklenen ki\u015filer\u2026
\nMe\u011fer bu rollerin arkas\u0131nda da maskeler varm\u0131\u015f.
\nO maske d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz ki, kimi zaman en a\u011f\u0131r ahlaks\u0131zl\u0131klar tam da \u201cahlak dersi\u201d verenlerin odalar\u0131nda ya\u015fan\u0131yor.
\nEskiden k\u00f6t\u00fc adam\u0131n tipi vard\u0131; bug\u00fcn masum y\u00fczl\u00fc, g\u00fcven telkin eden, \u201ckad\u0131n haklar\u0131\u201d konu\u015fanlar\u0131n aras\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor \u00e7o\u011fu. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck art\u0131k saklanm\u0131yor, yaln\u0131zca makyajlan\u0131yor.
\nVe kad\u0131nlar?
\nTacize u\u011frad\u0131klar\u0131nda zaten b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ac\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yorlar; ama as\u0131l zul\u00fcm ses \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131klar\u0131nda ba\u015fl\u0131yor.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu toplumda h\u00e2l\u00e2 taciz yapan de\u011fil, tacize u\u011frayan kad\u0131n\u0131n utanmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi \u00f6\u011fretiliyor.
\nKad\u0131n \u201cBa\u015f\u0131ma bu geldi\u201d dedi\u011fi anda bir kez daha su\u00e7lan\u0131yor:
\n\u201cBunu s\u00f6ylemekten utanm\u0131yor musun?\u201d
\n\u201cHerkes duyacak \u015fimdi\u2026\u201d
\n\u201cS\u00f6ylemeseydin, susayd\u0131n\u2026\u201d
\nYani tacize u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in de, tacize u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi\u011fi i\u00e7in de utand\u0131r\u0131lan yine kad\u0131n.
\nSesini \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00f6tekile\u015ftirilen, susturulan, damgalanan yine kad\u0131n.
\nVe b\u00f6ylece \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131k bile su\u00e7 say\u0131l\u0131yor.
\nDaha beteri:
\nKad\u0131n konu\u015funca cezay\u0131 tacizci de\u011fil, kad\u0131n \u00f6d\u00fcyor.
\n\u0130\u015finden at\u0131l\u0131yor, mobinge u\u011fruyor, yaln\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131l\u0131yor.
\n\u00d6yle vakalar var ki, ayn\u0131 su\u00e7u erkek i\u015fledi\u011finde korunuyor, kollan\u0131yor, g\u00f6revine devam ettiriliyor; ama kad\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 tacizi anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ad\u0131, soyad\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131k yaz\u0131l\u0131yor, damgalan\u0131yor, d\u0131\u015flan\u0131yor.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc eril d\u00fczen i\u00e7in su\u00e7un faili de\u011fil, su\u00e7u ortaya \u00e7\u0131karan kad\u0131n daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sorun.
\nYani tacizi yapan korunuyor, tacizi anlatan cezaland\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor.
\nVe sonra?
\nKad\u0131n ya susuyor\u2026 ya i\u015finden oluyor\u2026 ya da ne yaz\u0131k ki hayattan.
\nBug\u00fcn art\u0131k k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bir tipi yok.
\nKimli\u011fi de yok, sureti de yok.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck art\u0131k g\u00f6lgelerde saklanm\u0131yor; tam tersine, en parlak \u0131\u015f\u0131klar\u0131n alt\u0131nda, sahnenin ortas\u0131nda, temiz, g\u00fcvenilir g\u00f6r\u00fcnen y\u00fczlerde ve kurumlarda beliriyor.
\nBazen bir haber sunucusunun g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnde, bazen bir akademisyenin ciddiyetinde, bazen bir sanat\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n par\u0131lt\u0131s\u0131nda\u2026
\nK\u0131sacas\u0131, k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck kendini art\u0131k karanl\u0131kla de\u011fil, \u0131\u015f\u0131kla gizliyor.
\nBelki de as\u0131l soru \u015fimdi \u015fudur:
\nK\u00f6t\u00fclerin maskesi mi de\u011fi\u015fti, yoksa biz k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc alk\u0131\u015flayan ve seven bir kalabal\u0131\u011fa m\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fck?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Eskiden T\u00fcrk filmlerinde tacizcinin kim oldu\u011funu daha adam kap\u0131dan girerken bilirdik. Karanl\u0131k bir tip, kirli bir bak\u0131\u015f, sevimsiz bir y\u00fcz\u2026 Senaryo o kadar a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 ki \u201ck\u00f6t\u00fc\u201d belli olurdu. Peki ya bug\u00fcn? Bug\u00fcn as\u0131l tehlike kravatl\u0131, temiz y\u00fczl\u00fc, ekranda \u201cahlak\u201d diye nutuk atanlarda gizli. Ne ironidir ki, her g\u00fcn adli vakalar\u0131 anlatanlar\u0131n, su\u00e7un anatomisini \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":26,"featured_media":280380,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[286],"tags":[15,78,288],"class_list":{"0":"post-280379","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-yazarlar","8":"tag-chp","9":"tag-kemal-kilicdaroglu","10":"tag-ozgur-ozel"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280379","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/26"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=280379"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280379\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":280381,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280379\/revisions\/280381"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/280380"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=280379"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=280379"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halkweb.com.tr\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=280379"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}